Showing posts with label confession. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confession. Show all posts

Sunday, January 2, 2011

It's A New Day

With a bright sun and the first Sunday of the year upon is, it seems appropriate that today's message would be titled, "It's A New Day." Brad welcomed us by noting that sometimes we can get stuck in ruts, but that if that's the case with any of us, it's good to know that 2011 can be different. For the next few weeks Brad's sermons would be focused on things that steal our joy.

The quartet did us good by singing a couple of favorites in their usual good form, Heaven On My Mind and The Lighthouse. They led us in worship as well with several songs from the silver songbook.

Paula read to us from the Gospel of John 1:1-18, which includes so many great statements including, "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us. We have seen His glory..."

After a time of prayer Pastor Brad delivered the message.

It's A New Day

Brad began by citing a few memories from his school days. This soon led to the schoolyard practice of giving people nicknames, some of them being quite hurtful.

The point was soon made that we do not want the past to be what defines us. Many of us have painful memories of failure and mistakes made. Adultery, abortion, addictions, porn, a DUI, perhaps even jail time. "Your past can hack away at your soul like nothing else," he said.

Children have a good understanding of guilt. One seven year old said this: "Guilt is a pot inside you that burns when you're not good." Pretty insightful, and actually a good things when guilt leads to confession, repentance and restoration. But unresolved guilt is destructive.

In Psalm 51, King David declares that he's well aware of how bad he's been. David had not only committed adultery, but arranged the death of Bathsheba's husband in an attempt to cover it up. Secret sin is at odds with inner peace.

Modern psychology has observed that there is a direct connection between guilt and physical maladies. Not that all sickness is due to sin, but that sin does produce guilt which often manifests itself in sickness as one's energies become diverted from productive enterprises and end up devoted to cover ups. Proverbs 28:13 says it well. "He who conceals his sin does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."

Brad shared an acronym for guilt.
God's
Unique
Intentenional
Loving
Treatment.

Guilt is actually good because it leads us toward restoration when we heed it's painful reminders. On the other hand, unresolved guilt morphs into its sinister, ugly cousin: Shame. The difference between the two is this... we feel guilty for things we do, and shame for what we are.

Shame is a dangerous enemy. Grace is shame's energy.

When we feel guilt it's time to get honest with God. But it's also important to know the power of getting honest with each other. I John 1:7 states, "If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, His son, purifies us from every sin."

The next couple weeks we will be discussing Ephesians 3:17-18
"...so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, 18 may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ..."

Other Scriptures Brad noted before entering Communion included:
Isaiah 43:25
Isaiah 44:22
Micah 7:19
Psalm 103:12
Hebrews 10:17
Roman 8:1

"My mercies are new every morning." God be praised.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Crossroads

How quickly the summer has flown. This morning was the last of our Breakfast Roundtables, a very special time of sharing and visioning that many have participated in this summer. Today, also, Pastor Brad completed his summer series on the life of David.

Brad opened the breakfast discussion with something that was passed on to him from this summer’s 125th Annual Meeting of the Evangelical Covenant Church in St. Paul earlier this summer. Peter Cha, an associate professor at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, gave a message about the questions college students are asking as pertains faith issues.

Forty years ago, Paul Little of Intervarsity Christian Fellowship (IVCF) recorded that the four most prevalent questions asked by college students in the modern era were these:
1. Is there a God?
2. Is Christ God?
3. Is the Bible reliable?
4. Is it full of errors?

In our own time Rick Richardson, an IVCF evangelism associate, has studied the recurring questions college students are asking in a post-modern era. They are these:
1. How can I trust the Church that has done such terrible things in the name of Jesus?
2. Does your religion help society, especially those who suffer and are marginalized?
3. Aren't you just another self-serving group?
4. Doesn't the Church justify and maintain racial and gender hierarchical structures in the society?

It was a thought provoking opening to our Roundtable discussion, and like all of our discussions this summer, mentally stimulating and challenging.

The discussion this morning centered on the importance of health and vitality in the church. Churches need to remain vital, which means that they must be in a constant state of renewal. “Churches need to invest in their own vitality,” Brad noted, which is not dependent on size, location or the age of the congregation.

Each of us has a personal responsibility in this regard.

After another good discussion, we moved upstairs to prepare ourselves for worship.

Brad welcomed us warmly and noted that today would be the last message on his summer series about the life of David. He said he would be talking about sin today. He noted that we are all sinners saved by grace, hence as we gather here we are forgiven people, not perfect people.

Announcements included the upcoming Harvest Fest to be held in two weeks at the Twig Town Hall. There are still some volunteers needed to help pull it all together. Also, there are some oranges left which can be given to your neighbors inviting them to our community event. Be sure to take an orange when you leave next week... and to share it.

Wednesday night Adventure Club is also in need of volunteers for the coming year. Please contact Brooke if you have a passion for working with the young people in our church.

Also, Brooke keeps a calendar of events so that we can coordinate our various activities. If you have something planned, notify Brooke so she can get it placed on the calendar.

And finally, Gail noted the the church rummage sale is just around the corner and we need a couple volunteers to help price things.

After a time of worship, offering, Scripture reading (Luke 14:1, 7-14) and prayer, Brad presented his sermon from the front of the sanctuary.

Crossroads

Today's message was drawn from the account of David and Bathsheba, as recorded in II Samuel 11 and 12. Brad opened by saying that if you are not struggling today, one day you will be struggling with sin. Whether it's a habit of cutting sarcasm or Internet porn, sin is damaging.

When we look at the story of David and Bathsheba, one wonders how a guy who was called "a man after God's own heart" and who loved God have behaved so badly. Brad showed us how this kind of thing happened in David's life and how it can happen to us.

Keep in mind that we are mistaken when we categorize sin into acceptable and unacceptable. All sin is sin in God's eyes.

The metaphor Brad use was of an intersection with a traffic light. Green means go, red means stop and yellow caution. The lights were red but David blew right through three of them. Here's the first.

Spiritual Drift
II Samuel 11 begins with the first clue. It was the spring, a time when kings go off to war, but "David remained in Jerusalem." Here was the leader of Israel not being where he was supposed to be.
There are a variety of reasons we sometimes don't follow the rules. It may be we think they no longer apply to us. We know that we should follow the rules, but when push comes to shove we often slip because we don't trust that God has our best interests in mind. Brad had us jump over to II Samuel 12:7-8 where we see how God wants to give us even more than we could imagine.
Playing God
One evening while David was walking on the roof of his palace he saw a beautiful woman named Bathsheba bathing on her roof. David, who was married, ignored any warning lights and sent someone to find out more about her. The man came back stating she was married to Uriah the Hittite and the daughter of Eliam. None of this hindered David who then sent messengers to get her. David disregarded the warning light and proceeded to sleep with her.
This sending is typical of people who play God, treating others as pawns in the service of their own needs. But we're not God, nor are we in control of all the variables. There are always consequences for sin. In this case, Bathsheba becomes pregnant.
David had two choices at this point: (A) Cover up... and thus perpetuate the problem. Or (B) Confess and repent, which is the path to restoration.
In verse 6 David does more sending, this time having Uriah retrieved from the battlefront, in the hopes that he will solve the pregnancy problem by sleeping with his wife. But Uriah is a man of integrity. Instead of going to his wife, he stays at the palace, sleeping with the servants. David attempts then to get Uriah drunk and send him back to his wife but Uriah, even when drunk, continues to behave honorably, stating that as long as the armies of Israel are sleeping in tents and open fields, he will not go home and sleep in his bed.
So David becomes cold, calculating, and let's Uriah return to the front, but gives orders to Joab that will ensure that Uriah dies in battle. David's heart has become cold.
Brad made the point here that David thought his biggest danger was getting caught. But there is a bigger danger, and that is not getting caught. The biggest danger, when we have sin in our lives, is getting away with it.
The Last Crossroads
Up till now David has done all the sending. But in chapter 12, God sends the prophet Nathan to confront David. Nathan, who is confronting a man who just killed someone to cover his tracks, uses a parable to get David's attention. The story riles David's righteous indignation. Then comes the twist, and God's voice broke through.
This is the last crossroads. God's judgment is next. "Some of you have gone down the road of sin for so long that you don't even know what the truth is," Brad said. "Listen to God. He wants to bless."
It's important that we get this right. Confession and repentance is the door to restoration and life.